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Dont Repeat Everything Going along with what I just mentioned is the fact that so many of you talk about everything we do or say. We get the feeling sometimes that it isnt safe to share our thoughts or desires with you because once we are done talking, you are telling the whole world about what we said. Basically, whether he admits to it or not [url=http://www.trainerssaleukcheap.com/nike-air-max-2015-cheap/air-max-2015-whi... air max 2015 white mens , he is probably disappointed or even a little hurt by the fact that you wont regard what he tells you as private. You are also giving a mixed message by doing that. On one hand you say that you want to be more intimate and closer in the relationship, but as soon as he opens up, you are spilling your guts to all your friends or even worse, your mother. Stop a moment and think about it. Do you like it when someone tells others everything you do or say? Especially if your boyfriend were doing it? As I said at the start of this post,Treat men how you want to be treated. Period. This happens a lot especially if there is a disagreement. Seems as soon as we have a differing opinion , you are on the phone and reporting us, you need advice on how to deal with us….. Deal with us? How insulting is that? Part of the trouble with telling other people that you had a disagreement is because although you may not be saying that your boyfriend is bad, the person that you are talking to may make that assumption and start giving the guy heat about it or even start spreading rumors. It may sound silly, but this type of thing can ruin a relationship faster than cheating. Keep in mind that I am not saying that you cannot talk about us at all. Or that you cannot talk to others about your problems or that if you dont feel safe that you cannot mention it. If you dont feel safe then get help immediately. What I am saying, is to think before you tell others what he talks about or about every little disagreement. Just because we have a spat doesnt mean that the whole world has to know about it. Dont Judge Stop being to judgmental about what he says or does. Women seem to form snap judgments that most of the time are wrong. At least not 100% accurate and we as men [url=http://www.trainerssaleukcheap.com/nike-air-max-2015-cheap.html]nike air max 2015 cheap , dont often get the chance to explain to unbiased ears. Or for that matter, dont really see why we should explain it. So many times I have had girls wanting to know why I did something or said something only to realize they were judging me in a wrongful way. So stop relying on your snap judgments and thinking they are correct, you arent psychic and you really have no right to judge us anyway. Time to Yourself We agree, take time to yourself and have some space, we want it too. 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